

Holy Hump (Anon Submission)
It was one fateful Sunday, sitting on the couch in my apartment and feeling particularly blue (read lonely), that I decided I was going...

The Backup Fiancé
July 2019 I was introduced to Biodun. He was a grad student and we got along well, bants, serious convo, etc. One day while we were...

Pandemic Butterflies from a Yoruba Demon
After a failed attempt at being setup by an Aunty this summer I decided to take charge of my life. I got back on the apps. It was on one...


Yo where you been B?
I’ve been AWOL. Work got crazy and then I was stressed out and needed a break which I took and traveled. Post trip, I came back with new...

First Date Ideas
Cuffin season is upon us! while chatting with my friend, she shared she struggles with date ideas and tasked me with creating a list of...


Much Ado About Potential
My friend told me about this post that's been circulating on social media and it got me thinking about potential . This man is asking for...

Love Does Cost Something
Where does money fit in love? We've heard the saying money isn't everything, and at the same time had Davido remind us that love is sweet...

Exit Strategies
Mercedes met a guy online, after chatting they agreed to meet grab food at a casino. (Don't sleep on Casino restaurants) .D day comes and...


Looking for love in faraway places
So, I’ve been on Tinder and Bumble for a few weeks now. I first decided to download the apps on a friend’s suggestion, rather push, to...

Why Are You Single?
So, I think right when I clocked 28, I started getting the "why are you single?" question alot. Now that I’ve officially turned 30 the...